Posted by Speaker on January 27, 2005, at 15:52:47
In reply to Re: It just doesn't seem right., posted by daisym on January 27, 2005, at 0:27:13
Dinah,
I am just like you in fearing the rejection of the T's "no". However, I then put the practical side of me to work and think about how much money I am paying him. He has to be at work and it doesn't really matter who it is that is taking up his hour as long as they pay. OK, I know I also want him to CARE but when I feel guilty about seeing him to much I bring out the MONEY side...it eases my concern :). Hope it works a bit for you! I hate it when someone quotes what I have said...BUT, when I read your post I thought of your responses to others. Please be as kind to you as you are to all of us!
Caring,
Marie
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