Posted by LG04 on January 24, 2005, at 16:34:42
In reply to Re: Jealousy over T, posted by alexandra_k on January 23, 2005, at 13:59:07
hi, this is ironic b/c i just talked with my therapist about my jealousy yesterday, and we are going to explore it in detail next phone call. i sometimes feel very jealous of her husband. once in a while of her kids but usually it's her husband, that they get to see each other every day and talk every day and so on. and that her knows her in ways that i don't. it's definitely a little kid feeling, b/c as an adult, i am hardly ever jealous of anyone, it's not one of my adult issues. (i have plenty others though!) and i understand why i would feel so jealous, b/c i was "partnered" by each parent in a different way and therefore felt competitive towards each parent regarding their relationship with each other. yuck, so complicated and messy. makes me feel even dirty inside.
i am glad though that we are finally going to explore it in depth b/c i have felt it on and off for at least a year but never really went into with her. it's a hard thing to admit.
LG04
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