Posted by mair on January 12, 2005, at 17:31:07
In reply to Re: T calling between sessions...what do you think? » mair, posted by Speaker on January 12, 2005, at 17:09:25
Speaker - I've been seeing my T for about 5 years, but I've only very recently started to see her as being warm and fuzzy. My guess is that everyone else who knows her, whether friend or patient, sees her as being a warm person. It's only been in the last couple of weeks that I seem to be able to believe her when she says she cares about me.
I think the whole telephone issue and my initial impression of her as a person who didn't want to be bothered by her patients out of session, probably set us back a ton because it established an internal wall that we've been working to break down ever since. I don't for an instance discount what you're saying, because you sound a little like me, but it may be mostly just the way you experience your T and not the way he necessarily is.
It's probably worth continuing to explore with him.
Mair
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