Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 12, 2005, at 0:03:23
In reply to Re: Therapy Rage! » Fallen4MyT, posted by rainbowbrite on January 11, 2005, at 22:21:27
I just got back from ER sorry so late...ok here is what I think please ask him ...cause he must have all kinds of clients and we all..ALL think we are their worst or neediest or so on....some T's like mine never tell you to call they wait for YOU to ask or they THINK they told you that I am unsure of but whats the worse that can happen you will fire him right? The best is he may say I was waiting on you to bring it back up and yes please call me if you need to....T's go into the biz knowing they will see and hear it ALL ...Keep us posted and babble me if ya need to talk
HUGS
> > am still thinking at least give him say 3 more sessions and tell him point blank you FEEL <stress that word> like he is brushing the issues you want to work on aside...scary sounding but its easy once youre thinking hey I am paying for this :)
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> scary is an understatement! Oh I am dreading this but it needs to be done. :(
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> >Sometimes T's see danger for the client and want to feel around before they jump back in on that topic as not to overwhelme you but sometimes too it is there own issues....so please ask why you two have not been back to that.
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> Ok my theory (just wanted to share) is that my T doesn't want the responsibilty of a patient who is not stable. I think I got kindof iffy emotionally after talking about my *stuff* and I think It took a little more time thatn our scheduled session out of my T or something. I am going to investigate this further cause I really hope Im wrong. But I never hear call me if you need to or are you ok?
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> >BTW, you cannot drive ME anywhere I am already at hahahahaha....
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> OMG ME TOO! I knew I saw you at the starbucks tehre! I just knew it. LOL
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