Posted by Susan47 on January 11, 2005, at 22:39:45
In reply to I'm going to send my old T a letter tomorrow, posted by crushedout on January 11, 2005, at 20:42:23
And BTW if your ex-T sends the types of letters that mine does, it might be BETTER if you get no reply.
My T was a cold fish inside and out. What is the point of trying to build up trust with a client if you're so willing to tear everything apart later?
I hope you therapist cares beyond the paycheque. Remember that they're human, and every human being has the capacity to be an *ss at one time or another. And they have the ability to be in denial as much as anybody else. Please don't put too much weight on what your ex-T thinks.
Am I just talking to myself? Maybe.
Thanks for reading, I hope I haven't upset anybody ... but it would be great if therapists could realize how important they are to their clients. This is something that reverberates on these boards so much. It's so heartwarming to realize that some therapists actually really do care, and show their caring. Show it. Really, really, are unafraid to show they care. And if they don't, they shouldn't be seeing ANY clients. Because every human being is worthy of your best. Any therapist who can't give that, has no business being in the business.
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