Posted by Shortelise on January 7, 2005, at 18:28:41
In reply to Says What He THINKS I Need, posted by Speaker on January 6, 2005, at 22:11:47
Speaker, could you tell him this, that you distrust his sincerity?
If he's a good T, and if he was just saying it to mollify you, then he will tell you.
So if you trust he is a good therapist, and he tells you it was sincere, then will it be ok?
I have trouble with - can't think of the word - means when you say one thing and underneath there is another meaning. When I was little it was important for me to be able to read acurately what was beneath what was being said, because those around me said one thing and often meant another, esp my mother. Now that I have come to understand that, I am unable to bear it if I think someone is saying one thing and means another AND WON"T ADMIT TO IT or I am told I am being too sensitive. I am ok with most people, but those I trust MUST NOT prevaricate. I can't bear to feel "it's all in my mind". It's crazy making.
My guess is that he said it because he felt it, and knew you needed to hear it. He didn't not feel it and say it anyway. Twisted English, but a good thought!
ShortE
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