Posted by B2Chica on December 21, 2004, at 18:18:58
In reply to Re: DBT...CubicMe??-others » B2Chica, posted by cubic_me on December 17, 2004, at 15:28:01
hey sweetie, thanks. summed up perfectly. i did the group thing while in the hosp last spring and an outpatient thing and hated both. i just feel it's a waste of my money.
below is both true and false. yes i was putting off therapy, i'm very scared cuz last time it seemed to only make things worse. however, this guy 'gets it'. when i struggle for the words he knows, he doesn't push or pull...it's just there. he'll let me draw things out (which is awesome for me since when sometimes i can't say things but i know i could draw them...)
So i know this is the one. but i am in one sense glad that it's being stalled till after the holidays cuz of some issues i'm not wanting to get into. on the other hand. my depression is really bad right now and i could use the support...really badly.
thnx CM.
b2c.> About your new T: you said that you though only wanting to see him may be a sign of your borderline. I was thinking maybe wanting *only* him (when he is unavailable at the momeent, and may be unavailable in future) may be a way of avoiding therapy (and the issues it brings up). If I'm totally off base, just ignore that!
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