Posted by daisym on December 11, 2004, at 1:43:46
In reply to I'm totally lost, posted by crushedout on December 11, 2004, at 1:20:53
Me too Crushed! I think the exchange is about whether Fallen has (is?) currently being social with her therapist or if she is just hoping. I'll let he speak to that.
As far as what you are doing...from what you've written over the past year, I think you have made a wise choice to try to get some perspective on this. You are hurting so badly. Unrequited love is the worst feeling...
I don't disagree that it is impossible to judge someone's therapist based on what we write here. And we write how they appear to us or what they actually do. I honestly don't know if your therapist is providing support and caring or encouraging something else. It is true that my therapist encourages me to lean on him, but holds a pretty firm framework for how we do that. I'll think about it some more and let you know. Take care of yourself.
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