Posted by pinkeye on December 9, 2004, at 17:19:17
In reply to Re: Blessed are those who go to the same sex therapist, posted by annierose on December 9, 2004, at 16:53:59
I actually like it very much this way. With my previous T, I was so enormously attached that it hurt a lot. 3/4 ths of the time, I was wondering if he liked me, why he didn't respond, etc etc.
I cannot go through it again. I know with my new T that she doesn't care even a little bit about me and I like it this way. Atleast I don't have to worry about liking her and wondering why she didn't like me.
Even if I don't make much of a progress, I am better off with this than go through an intense attachment again.
Pinkeye.> Here's a question: can you be productive in therapy with no attachment? I guess it depends upon the type of treatment you are in. Pyschodynamic therapy would foster feelings to be explored. Just rambling and curious pinkeye, that you seemed so detached from T and her to you.
> Do you like it that way? I'm not making a judgment (although I know it came off that way ... I'm not a very good writer).
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