Posted by Gabbix2 on December 6, 2004, at 18:55:11
In reply to Why do I feel I'm being punished by you? (nm) » Gabbix2, posted by 64bowtie on December 6, 2004, at 5:32:22
I wouldn't want to try and tell you why you feel the way you do Rod, but I can say I'm not trying to punish you. In all honesty, yes I often don't tolerate your approach well, and often feel condescended to by you. That's not the sole reason I tell you what I think when I disagree with you though. You present yourself as a coach not a person in need of support. So when you ask for feedback, I give it to you. I would do the same for anyone who claimed to be a professional and asked for feedback, or made claims about an illness I live with. Your posts rarely question, they're quite self-assured statements, and you have said you weren't asking for "warm fuzzies" therefore I've never felt my responses need to be delicate either.
Originally I had thought if I just didn't respond to you it wouldn't be offering you the feedback you've asked for and that wouldn't be helpful to you.
It doesn't seem that it's really doing either of us much good, and probably contributing to a negative feeling on babble overall, so I think this will most likely be my last post.
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