Posted by underthecs on November 28, 2004, at 13:24:31
In reply to want to know/don't want to know, posted by thewrite1 on November 28, 2004, at 12:22:20
I totally understand your dilemma... but when my T's disclosure triggers something in me (jealousy, rage, abandonment, whatever), then we use that in therapy (or, at least, that's what I'm trying to do). It's good grist for the mill. Though of course some disclosure is totally inappropriate, but that's not what I'm talking about here. What do you think was your therapist's motivation for sharing that with you? I know you don't want to talk to her about it. It's very difficult to do. But it feels good to get to the other side of it.
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