Posted by daisym on November 11, 2004, at 19:30:58
In reply to Should I Just Accept She's Lame??, posted by Rigby on November 11, 2004, at 12:48:12
Rigby,
I'm going to way over-step here and ask you to really be honest with yourself about "not having an emotional attachment." I have to wonder because you describe the email as "emotional" and you sound really hurt by her response. (I would have been crushed.) What were you hoping for?
If you can honestly answer that you don't have an emotional investment in this therapist, then my next comment is that it seems like you ARE looking for someone to connect with. It sounds to me like you still have some things to work out and would like to find someone who can "handle you and your situation." You deserve to feel confident in your therapy. Starting over might be hard, but it might also provide new insights, and supports.
All that said, I'm sorry you were left in such an uncomfortable position. You deserved better.
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