Posted by fallsfall on October 6, 2004, at 6:43:41
In reply to Should've gone to that specialist, posted by Dinah on October 5, 2004, at 23:06:33
She *recommended* the surgery because you had complained about something (if I recall correctly). Unless I am understanding this issue wrong, the surgery would be designed make your sex life better. You *have* the choice of leaving things as they are, or having the surgery. If you want to leave things as they are, you can do that. It is also OK to ask if there are any alternative treatments since the surgery doesn't seem to be particularly enticing to you.
She was just trying to present you with a solution to the problem you told her about. You are not obligated to have the surgery just because she mentioned it.
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