Posted by RosieOGrady on September 29, 2004, at 12:40:37
Someone put a comment on a post of mine on ADMIN directed to me that I don't understand. Then someone else came along and posted a smiley to her re her comment directed at me. I don't get it. Are they making fun of me? Did I do something stupid or laughable without meaning to?
I told the original poster I didn't understand .The original poster has been back to the board and added a comment on that thread but didn't answer my post so I assume she isn't willing to explain.
How do I forget about it and go on?
It reminds me of the schooyard where one day everyone stops talking to you and making signs to each other about you but no one will ever tell you why. That happened to me and I think it happens a lot according to 'Odd Girl Out' which was a book about female bullying. It's a particularly female brand of cruelty.
I am aware that this situation is probably not analagous and the connection is in my head. But how do I get it out of my head?
poster:RosieOGrady
thread:396836
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