Posted by Pfinstegg on September 26, 2004, at 21:20:19
In reply to Re: contact after termination(a bit long..) » Pfinstegg, posted by lonelygal on September 26, 2004, at 21:04:50
I do understand. Is there any way you can find out where she is now- what her address is, etc.? Being in a university community, I would think there might be a way to do that. Perhaps if you could just write or e-mail her so as to keep a bit of contact as long as you need to, it might help a lot in overcoming those terrible feelings of loss. From what I have read here, a number of people have found a way to do that, and have felt a lot of caring from even sporadic contact. Not all, though- a few people have not had good experiences. But I do get the feeling that the good experiences outnumber the bad ones by quite a bit.
I can empathize with you on another level- I was once a med student myself, and know how many stresses, as well as joys and accomplishments, go along with that! The stresses, to me, anyway, were pretty huge. I hope everything goes well for you, and especially that you find the close connections and support that you are looking for. I hope you will keep posting here, too!
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