Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry?

Posted by daisym on September 9, 2004, at 18:01:16

In reply to Have You Ever Made Your T Cry?, posted by antigua on September 9, 2004, at 12:45:29

I have expressed concerns that what I'm telling is too hard to take...the reflections of tears, shock or sadness. I describe the "appalled" look on his face sometimes. It has been explained to me, both here and by my therapist, that the stories I'm telling deserve these kinds of reactions. They are appalling or sad. He isn't reacting to make me feel bad about telling, it is the appropriate reactions. I have to learn that. I want to quickly withdraw or gloss over the details when I see this.
I think sometimes we do touch a deep place from their own past and that is what is coming up.
I'm glad you are achieving more clarity and are able to relate more to those emotions. Keep up the good work!

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Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? antigua 9/9/04
Nope. Never. Dinah 9/9/04
Yes, we have shared tears » antigua partlycloudy 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? vwoolf 9/9/04
Yes unless it was allergies (nm) pantt 9/9/04
tears shortelise 9/9/04
nope. But have made his BLUSH (nm) Miss Honeychurch 9/9/04
Re: nope. But have made his BLUSH allisonf 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? daisym 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? shrinking violet 9/9/04
Nope. Klokka 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? lucy stone 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? » antigua crushedout 9/9/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? Daisy and all antigua 9/10/04
What Crushedout said Susan47 9/10/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? terrics 9/12/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? » terrics Susan47 9/12/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? » Susan47 terrics 9/13/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? Susan47 9/15/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? » Susan47 terrics 9/16/04
Re: Have You Ever Made Your T Cry? » terrics Susan47 9/16/04

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