Posted by Dinah on September 4, 2004, at 14:20:10
In reply to Re: Why bother with therapy? » Dinah, posted by allisonf on August 30, 2004, at 15:20:41
I think he's just plain disorganized. :) No need to put a finer face on it. He has many fine qualities. Organization isn't one of them. He's consistently late, his desk is a mess, he forgot to get his listing into the phone book. He's just disorganized. Luckily I'm not seeing him because *I* feel disorganized, or I'd have to quit. :)
He's not great on the phone, so I don't call him much. Or I do call him sometimes, but to leave a message or to ask a question that can be answered with a few words. I try to be very specific about what response I'm looking for, or I just feel worse after he returns my call. I guess I'd give up calling completely, except sometimes I'll be obsessing about something, and just leaving him a message keeps it from interfering with my life and productivity till the next session.
I still think I'm going to reduce sessions. We're just trying to work on the best way to do it. Have you given it any more thought? The intensity of my anger once I decided to go through with session reduction startled me.
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