Posted by daisym on September 3, 2004, at 1:14:36
In reply to Re: Hugging and different schools of thought. » Susan47, posted by Dinah on September 3, 2004, at 0:36:29
I maintain eye contact unless I retelling a memory or reading something. Then I look out the window. I need the eye contact sometimes to stay in the room. I think I'm trying to see what he is thinking.
Here is something weird: I've been seeing him for 15 months, give or take. When he gave me a picture last month, I noticed he was wearing glasses. I thought, wow, he must leave them off during sessions. or wear contact lens or something. Nope. He has had on his glasses (they aren't all that noticable, wire rims) every session. I'm sure he has always had them. I guess I just look into his eyes so straight on that I stopped seeing them. I should tell him that. Except he would probably wonder what it means that I didn't see/remember them.
Laughing at myself -- Again!!
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