Posted by wheeler on August 31, 2004, at 12:59:48
In reply to Hugging and different schools of thought., posted by Skittles on August 31, 2004, at 1:20:09
I have been seeing my T for 3 years. Last year when I was having trouble 'holding' on to our connection between sessions she thought it would be a good idea if we came out with a ritual that we would do at the end of our sessions. Basically that meant that we would hug at the end of the session.
For a while it was an automatic thing, but now, for the most part, it only happens when I initiate it. Although there are still times, like when I have a pariculaly difficut session, she'll initiate it.
It still is hard for me to hold on to our connection in between sessions, but I'm usually able to look back on the hug and feel a little better.
- wheeler
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