Posted by Shadowplayers721 on August 26, 2004, at 22:22:54
In reply to I know colors mean something, posted by Susan47 on August 25, 2004, at 17:49:08
I would interpret that the oranges and reds mean ready for a change. Now, I am not necessarilary meaning you. pardom my spelling not in good way at the moment. Think of red. Wow, I think of stop, death, sexy for a few words here. You may be like what the heck is she saying. A woman walking in a room with red on vs a woman with black on is screaming out something. It may even be anger - rage depending on the tone here. Like - I have had it. They say a man feels much more safe when his wife wears pink than red. All you have to do to make pink is add white to red. Red can be threatening. Red is also a power color.
Black and white can be many things too. It can be just business, conforming, balanced, deceiving, but it too is a dramatic look. This combination to me is also a power color theme. Why do I say it is deceiving? Because some women use the black to hide things or make them smaller and use the white to make things appear larger than they really are. In other words, they are hiding the true shape of their body to others. Some may do the opposite and where the white to make their big parts appear even larger and the smaller parts even smaller. This is to repel others and hide their sexuality. So, only you know the real reason why you chose these colors for others to see.
In both situations, you are sending some big messages? Were you angered with the last T wanted a change, so you chose the red colors? Now, you are with a new T and still feeling them out, so you are hiding in the shadows just a bit for good measure? I have a feeling these colors will change in time. It's my gut that as you work thru trust, you will come out of the black and white.
What do I know? I am just a shadow player;)
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