Posted by lucy stone on August 21, 2004, at 6:48:38
In reply to Re: Life is falling apart again, posted by Susan47 on August 20, 2004, at 22:52:44
> GG, You are one of the sweetest people. I've been watching you on the Board and I know you're very caring. Thanks for that.
> Well, the options mean talking to complete strangers and starting over at the beginning and who knows knowing stuff about me and I just cannot do that I just don't want to do that ever again.Oh boy, can I relate to this. It was very, very, difficult for me to talk to me first T and our relationship ended in a disasterous way for me. He managed to talk me into seeing someone else, I knew I should but the idea of it... He wrote a letter to my new T, putting in the major issues we were working on , and that helped a bit. I didn't have to start over right from the beginning. I was so terrified at the idea that I had my husband call and make the first appointment for me. I have asked him what he thought about that, and he said that it made him realize the extent of my anxiety about talking to him. Do you have someone you trust who could make the initial contact for you?
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