Mel, thanks for your calming influence! » AuntieMel

Posted by JenStar on August 20, 2004, at 12:03:18

In reply to Re: Board manners;) » fires, posted by AuntieMel on August 19, 2004, at 23:47:28

Mel,
I just want to reiterate how much your post helped me cool down & take a deep breath.
Hearing someone say I was nice (-- even when I wasn't being especially nice --) was so cool. It made me feel special & happy for a moment. I really thank you for that! It makes me want to BE nicer to deserve your approval! :) Thanks for having patience.
I also agree that Susan and undertheecs are nice as well. I enjoy reading your posts, guys/gals. I'm in a much calmer mood today & will strive to keep it all pleasant from my end.
Hope you're all doing well!
JenStar
JenStar

> As someone who likes you, might I make a prediction that this post will get you a "please rephrase"
>
> ============================================================
> Mel, pretending to be Dr. Bob:
>
> >>>>>If Dr. Bob doesn't ban you then there is no justice on this group. I never came close to attacking anyone the way you just attacked me. Putting your attacks in the form of questions just doesn't work.
>
> >>>>>OK. Next time you might try not calling me an "inflammatory person." That's very offensive to my sensibilities.
>
> >>>>>Please. After you attack me, you say, "please take this with a grain of salt" then you proceed with the rhetorical questions again -- after I've clearly explained why they are so offensive.
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> MelBob here - even if you feel like you are being attacked, in the name of civility you should suppress the impulse to attack back. Please either rephrase this, or not respond to it at all.
> ====================================================
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> Mel back, without the Dr. Bob suit. Really, fires, I'd really like you to stay around more than a day this time. I enjoy our conversations.
>
> Mel
>
> PS = Jen and Susan and underthecs are all really nice people. I think we ALL (me too) have to remember that things got off to a bad start before, take a deep breath, step back, and above all be adults. All of which are difficult for me on a good day.

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Re: return to therapy » fires Larry Hoover 8/19/04
Re: return to therapy: JenStar Susan47 8/19/04
Re: return to therapy » Larry Hoover fires 8/19/04
Re: return to therapy » fires AuntieMel 8/19/04
Re: return to therapy » jane d AuntieMel 8/19/04
Re: Board manners;) » fires AuntieMel 8/19/04
Re: return to therapy: JenStar » Susan47 JenStar 8/20/04
Re: Board manners;) » AuntieMel JenStar 8/20/04
Re: return to therapy » fires gardenergirl 8/20/04
Re: return to therapy » fires Larry Hoover 8/20/04
not ignoring, just busy :)fires (nm) fires 8/20/04
Re: return to therapy/Questions » underthecs AuntieMel 8/20/04
Mel, thanks for your calming influence! » AuntieMel JenStar 8/20/04
Re: Mel, thanks for your calming influence! » JenStar AuntieMel 8/20/04
Susan,Lar,Fires,Underthecs-wanna join the hugfest? (nm) AuntieMel 8/20/04
Anyone with more on CBT? (nm) AuntieMel 8/20/04
To AuntieMel Shadowplayers721 8/20/04
Just a reminder to those he asked to not to reply Shadowplayers721 8/20/04
Re: Susan,Lar,Fires,Underthecs-wanna join the hugfest? » AuntieMel Larry Hoover 8/20/04
Re: Anyone with more on CBT? » AuntieMel Larry Hoover 8/20/04
Re: please be civil » JenStar » fires Dr. Bob 8/20/04
Re: please be civil - yes, will do :) » Dr. Bob JenStar 8/20/04
Aw, Shadows, please don't be stern with me... » Shadowplayers721 AuntieMel 8/20/04
Good one ! » Larry Hoover AuntieMel 8/20/04
Re: Aw, Shadows, please don't be stern with me... Shadowplayers721 8/20/04
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Re: thanks (nm) » JenStar Dr. Bob 8/22/04

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