Posted by Susan47 on August 15, 2004, at 14:48:58
In reply to Feeling guilty » Susan47, posted by mair on August 14, 2004, at 11:47:04
Thank you for your kind words. I have a very abrupt side to my personality and it's never meant to be mean but I realize it comes across that way a lot of the time. It's the way I was raised, which I'm trying to overcome; I could definitely say what I want to say in softer terms.
It sounded to me as though you were struggling with transference with her as well as your T, and with both of them gone, things were really bad for you; but having been a secretary in the past, I know how awful these situations can be for a secretary, so I was riled just thinking about that. Bosses can have a huge effect on secretaries, and secretaries can transfer onto them too; am I just trying to say that *all* relationships are tricky?
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