Posted by crushedout on August 11, 2004, at 16:23:00
Hi all,I've been away from Babble for over a month. It may be premature to say this, but I think I may finally be over the extremely long erotic transference toward my T. Part of it is that my new boyfriend (who's a therapist) has helped me see all the ways she's sucked as a T, and part of it is that she's really been f'ing up lately, corroborating my boyfriend's arguments for me.
When I saw her yesterday, I didn't feel attracted to her at all, I don't think.
That's all really wonderful.
The bad part is that she might really suck as a T and I might have to fire her. We kind of smoothed things over yesterday so I'm still seeing where this all goes, but I have major reservations.
Just wanted to let you all know, since as those of you who know my saga know, these are huge, long-awaited developments, if not entirely positive ones.
poster:crushedout
thread:376507
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