Posted by DaisyM on August 3, 2004, at 17:30:34
In reply to talking about the client patient relationship, posted by rubenstein on August 3, 2004, at 9:10:09
It is hard to know what to say and not to say, isn't it? But I think a thank you is OK, I guess it depends on why you want to say it.
My therapist is all about the relationship. It was really hard for me when he first started asking direct questions because it feels like admitting stuff I usually keep to myself. Plus, my feelings get intensely complicated about therapy, him and how I feel about myself in different states.
I don't think it is unusual but not all therapists work this way. They might only talk about the relationship if something is wrong, or if the client brings it up...or they might not talk about it at all. Some feel it is really important that you become attached to them and your therapy and some don't seem to think this is necessary at all.
If it makes you uncomfortable, you should say so. It will probably lead to a productive discussion about disclosing your feelings and might help you look at what it is you are hoping to get from therapy.
You will probably get lots of opinions on this questions. That is what is so great about Babble. Welcome!
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