Posted by tryingtobewise on July 10, 2004, at 23:37:16
In reply to Re: Situation with former Therapist (very long sorry) » tryingtobewise, posted by Dinah on July 10, 2004, at 22:01:17
Dinah - thank you so much for your response! Yes, it does help when I focus on the the less ethical things he does. It is just a very weird thing. Sometimes I think I'm ok with it and other times it just feels bad...like I'm kind of trapped even though I know I'm not.
I did recently begin therapy with my psych MD, she presents a very calm front but she did look very surprised and displeased when I described (in a lot less detail than above) my work situation. In a way that made me feel better... to know that another professional thought it was a bad deal.
Thanks again for replying.
Kim
Goodness gracious. Those *are* very poor boundaries!!! To say the least.
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