Posted by karen_kay on July 1, 2004, at 22:39:29
In reply to Another question for Karen Kay, posted by BigFish on July 1, 2004, at 20:26:19
i think (or maybe i put this thought in my head) he almost encouraged my crush in a way. he answered every (and i ask some very tough and 'questionalbe' questions) question i had. i asked some pretty rough questions and he answered without a hint of embarassment. and i asked some rather intrusive questions. again, he answered them (questions about his personal thoughts that i had no right to ask and he probably shouldn't have answered). but, i think in answering them, he allowed me to realize that some of the 'dirty' thoughts i thought about him were ok. and he often told me more than i asked.
actually, now it's almost embarrassing to talk about some of the questions i asked him. and some of the things i told him, things he probably didn't nor shouldn't know about me, my persoal thoughts, his personal thoughts..
rather than embarrass myself further, you can archive if you like. but, i'd rather not recall the things i've told this person (i mean, i once told him about my first orgasm, and he was involved in a sort of way.. anyone remember that one?)
i really think it helps to be very open and very honest.
poster:karen_kay
thread:362354
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