Posted by lucy stone on June 22, 2004, at 20:07:22
My T is on vacation this week. My first session back with him will be a week from today. I see him 4 times a week so he is normally a huge part of my life. I have done better with the separation this time, usually I get very angry and we clash a lot in the week before he goes, but this time I could discuss the coming break like a rational human (progress!). When he goes away he always gives me the number of the place he is staying so that I can get in touch with him if I need to. This time he is staying in a mountain cabin without a phone and he gave me the name of the main office. They will bring him a message if I call. I did with it what I think a lot of us would do, I googled it. Up popped a picture of the very cabin he is staying in, interior pictures included. I told him I had googled it and of course we talked about it so I know he thinks it was an OK thing to do. That's how I know which cabin he is in, he told me himself. Over the last few days I have occaisionally gone to the site and looked at the pictures, imagining him in the cabin. It gives me comfort and helps me feel closer to him while he is gone. I just wanted to share this with people who will understand. All the people in my non-cyber world with thing this is really strange, but I know I will get understanding here.
Just wanted to share,
Lucy
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