Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2004, at 16:00:18
In reply to Abandonment Fear!, posted by Aphrodite on May 17, 2004, at 12:03:37
Oooh, I know exactly how you feel. My therapist was talking in passing one day before he got married about how he misses his home state, and how he could work out the license issues. Moreover, he isn't the stablest guy career wise.
I'm sure he instantly regretted his lack of judgement. I obsessed on it incessantly for so long! And he wouldn't reassure me that he wouldn't leave town. He said there are no assurances in life, etc. etc.
When he got married, one of the things he said is that being married would assure that he wouldn't be leaving this area. So that's reassuring, right? Well, now I just obsess over the state of his marriage because I'm reasonably certain that if his marriage ends, he'd move.
As Roseannerosannadanna (or was it Emily Litella) said, if it's not one thing, it's another. Or something like that.
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