Posted by gardenergirl on May 5, 2004, at 22:39:32
In reply to Re: is sorry ok ?, posted by joslynn on May 5, 2004, at 11:58:41
I agree with the others...if finding forgiveness for him within yourself is something that will be healing for you, than by all means, aim for that. But that does not mean that everything that happened in the past is now "okay" and forgotten. He still needs to adhere to the boundaries established by you and by his bosses. This is for your best interest, and for his.
I'm sure it must have been quite painful and confusing to run into him like that. In some ways, his asking for forgiveness is another violation. It's all about his needs. And it should have always been about yours.
(((tmp)))
Take care.
gg
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