Re: His Comments

Posted by pegasus on April 23, 2004, at 23:13:40

In reply to His Comments, posted by Speaker on April 23, 2004, at 8:54:52

Here's another possible perspective on this: Maybe your T was being vague because your question was vague and he was trying to match you. I know that my old T was perfectly willing to tell me anything I wanted to know, but he didn't tell me things unless I asked. And if I asked things in a limited way, he'd give me limited answers. That was because he was looking to me to guide him in regards to how much I *wanted* to know. He told me that he had clients who never asked about anything, and so they didn't know nearly as much about him. I guess I can see that a T wouldn't necessarily want to volunteer information, because what if that info freaked out a client? Some clients prefer to imagine that their Ts don't exist when they're not there. I'm just throwing that out there. No idea if it might fit your T.
pegasus

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