Posted by karen_kay on April 13, 2004, at 18:00:56
In reply to I'm scared of going to sleep., posted by utopizen on April 13, 2004, at 1:18:58
i have withdrawls. but, i don't have F's because i talk my way out of them somehow. i charm my way into extensions as well. i've recently decided that since it works for me, and works well, i might add, i'll continue to do it. i do my best writing in a hurry, as it seems that when i have to write under pressure, i do my best work. if that is working for you, then do it. and don't feel guilty about it at all. don't feel guilty for getting extensions or 'charming' your way out of things. call it resourceful and using your given people skills. and a lot fo people don't have wonderful people skills. it's a gift, not a curse. try to look at it that way, and don't feel guilty about it. people skills are the number one things employers look for when hiring. so, try not to feel guilty about it, rather than changing your personal behaviors. but, that's my personal opinion about it.
see, i too have the same problem. i slack and slack, but somehow i happen to talk my way into making things happen. so, it was pointed out to me that it's a wonderful personal trait to have. can you see it that way??? i've started to and it's marvelous, as it doesn't hurt anyone. and when i get a job, boy oh boy, imagine what i can accomplish with my people skills!
but, that's just my personal opinion. feel free everyone to attack. i'm ducking now!!! :)
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