Posted by tabitha on April 10, 2004, at 9:34:55
In reply to Re: therapist doesn't buy my interpretation » tabitha, posted by Dinah on April 9, 2004, at 20:37:28
My goodness, I can't even imagine that she'd feel hurt by me. First thought-- with all the money I've paid her, why would she bother to feel hurt?
You know, I also thought I didn't get attached since she keeps herself out of the discussion, focuses on me, isn't self-revealing at all. Then she told me that therapists who work that way are *more* likely to have clients get crushes and so forth.
I feel a little pressured to have feelings toward her now. Have to talk about that. We also talked about my feelings toward a group member. One session he and I had a special moment, then lo and behold after that I start coming up with reasons not to trust him. I guess I have issues with this whole attachment thing. It's confusing.
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