Posted by Joslynn on April 7, 2004, at 21:44:40
In reply to Re: ugh, now this makes me feel ill » joslynn, posted by fallsfall on April 7, 2004, at 21:13:19
So he finally called me back. He was completely nice and I could tell simply had NO CLUE that I was upset. In fact, he asked, so how are you, what can I do for you? at the beginning of the call, as if I hadn't already left all those msgs telling him my very simple request. In no way was he acting mad at me and I could tell that he was also completely unaware how mad I had been.
I decided not to go into how it made me feel etc during a phone call at the end of the day after we'd both had a long day at work. It's hard to explain why you are upset when the person seems to honestly have no clue that you even are upset.
So I got down to business and rescheduled. I have decided to talk about it at the next session, after I am more rested and have decided what to say. I could have brought it up this evening, since he asked if there was anything else I needed to talk about, but I just couldn't get into it on the phone and I knew I had to calm down.
Thanks for all the posts and supports. I'll let you know what happens at the next session.
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