Posted by judy1 on April 1, 2004, at 11:00:19
In reply to Re: I apologize » judy1, posted by spreeville on March 31, 2004, at 19:58:08
your fear- no one likes the feeling of being ignored. This is the way I handled a termination, (only because I really, really wanted to know what went wrong and was having no success with phone calls). When it is done correctly- a letter (preferably registered), without emotion and stating facts, then he is risking a lot by not answering. I'll assume the previous messages you left were very emotional (I've done the same) and therefore easier to dismiss. Please don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable, perhaps after all this time it's easier to ignore it. For me it was a necessity, I tend to blame myself for any failure- and this was clearly a failure on the part of the shrink- I just needed that verified. Whatever you decide, I wish you well- judy
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