Posted by Pfinstegg on March 10, 2004, at 15:30:27
In reply to Re: How do you feel about your T's boundaries?/lon » tinydancer, posted by Fallen4myT on March 10, 2004, at 13:54:58
What a lovely thing for your T. to have said- that you have *grace*. It's such a strong and beautiful word- and not one that is used a lot in daily life, perhaps because it is so powerful. If mine had said that to me, I would be thrilled, and would remember it for the rest of my life. The T. I had when I was very young once said to me, "you're sexy as hell" (despite all those done-up buttons!). I treasure that, and always will, because I knew he meant it and I knew it was true- not so much in how I dressed, but in how I felt inside. But I would love to be told that I had *grace*- that kind of includes all the important things.
Fun with the clothes aside, for a moment, you've given us hints about how powerful your loving feelings for your T. are. That's the BEST thing that could possibly happen- it gives you so much to work with.
Isn't it fascinating - all the most meaningful things which happen between us and our T's seem to be "border crossings" (not violations). My T. thinks that they are extremely important in helping people really grow; he welcomes them as they occur.
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