Posted by Pfinstegg on February 22, 2004, at 17:49:53
In reply to Drat, above for... » Miss Honeychurch, posted by Dinah on February 22, 2004, at 16:45:45
I think the main thing that happened with you and your therapist is that you got BETTER! Some of the disclosures by Bubba really did seem to be boundary violations, but there must have been so many other good things going on that helped you feel better and more reflective. The things that sounded so alarming here on PB apparently really were not damaging in the context of your total relationship- you grew, felt a lot better and really value the experience you had.
But I've got to mention one thing: your therapy is being unilaterally ended by him, or much more likely, by his supervisor. He (she) must have felt concerned enough about some of the violations to recommend that. It's a shame this had to happen, as it sounded like you were an excellent "match" and that you gained a lot from your experience with him. I'm sure he'll go on to be a great therapist who keeps good boundaries, and that you, as and if needed, can find another therapist to have another very rewarding, growth-producing experience with. Still, it would have been good if you could have continued with him while you finish college..
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