Posted by Karen_kay on February 19, 2004, at 12:04:55
In reply to Re: what to do, posted by lilmsbubbles07 on February 19, 2004, at 10:50:13
Hun, you need to start telling your new therapist that your feelings matter, and they ARE real. Show her the darn test results if she tries to say otherwise....
I'm worried about you. If your therapist isn't going her job to help you work through the stress of being transfered out, then you need to find a QUALIFIED therapist who will help you...
Listen, you have to tell her the importance of your feelings and how much stress you have in your life. You need to set goals as to where you want to be. And (in you I mean you and her, of course, not just you personally) YOU (now I mean just you) need to make certain she knows how much you cared for your previous therapist and that YOU (together) need to find a way to work through that.... Speakup! Yell at her if she's so dense she won't hear you. Make her hear you!
That's my advice. I hope you don't take this post as being harsh, that's not my intention. I jsut want you to understand how very important it is to make her realize that your feelings count...
((((miss bubbles)))) you take care of yourself, you hear me?
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