Posted by cubic_me on February 19, 2004, at 8:25:32
In reply to Crappy, crappy week (confusing, long rant), posted by gardenergirl on February 19, 2004, at 0:14:28
I'm sorry things are so hard for you at the moment, you know we are all 100% behind you.
> Today I also found out that a client I have been seeing since summer SI's. I feel so sad for her and sad that it took so long for her to be ready for this to come out (today I noticed the scars as she had her sleeves rolled up and was stroking her arm--seemed like at least unconsciously she wanted me to know.)
It took me over 6 months to tell my T that I SI, and it wasn't because of a problem with her. It was because I needed to trust her so much and it is such a secretive thing. Before I had only told other SIers that I SI, telling her was SO scary. Like the others said, most of us wish we had T's that care half as much as you, but take a little time for yourself sometimes - you need it at the mo.
_me x
PS I loved falls version of the letter!
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