Posted by lilmsbubbles07 on February 10, 2004, at 21:06:35
In reply to Re: Heart Professionally Broken ?? » lilmsbubbles07, posted by Crooked Heart on February 10, 2004, at 18:46:44
> Hi lilmsbubbles
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> You asked why weren't you told about transference when you started therapy. I've been thinking about starting a new thread on that one:
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I THINK THAT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA!!> Before a doctor gives a treatment that might have powerful side-effects they're ethically obliged to warn you about the possible effects, right? I THOUGHT SO BUT I GUESS NOT
Well therapy transference can have such HUGE effects on a person's life, more than many meds etc. And it seems to happen so often. So would it be a good idea if therapists had to warn clients about this possibility?
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> I think perhaps the reason why people don't walk away is maybe because it's those who most need their therapists (because of the biggest lack when they were small) who 'fall' hardest.
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> I feel sad and angry that your first therapy was so bad for you.
> HAVE U READ MY STORY IF NOT I WILL EXPLAIN IT TO U !!
> Would it help if you were to explain again to your new therapist that how you feel about your first t is getting in the way of doing anything about other issues? I don't know if that's a good idea, any suggestions, anyone?
WELL I HAVE EXPLAINED IT TO HER AND SHE LAUGHS WHICH MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A A**!!! SHE TELLS MY FEELINGS ARENT REAL BUT THEY ARE REAL OR I WOULDNT FEL SO MUCH PAIN RIGHT ? MAYBE I AM JUST CRAZY BUT AT THIS POINT I WANT TO JUST DIG A HOLE LAY IN IT AND DIE
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> Keep posting.
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