Posted by DaisyM on February 7, 2004, at 19:18:36
In reply to I think I don't understand sex *at all*, posted by Dinah on February 7, 2004, at 11:38:18
Well the nuns would tell us that God made us (girls) susceptible to the "power" of seduction so that we would insure the survival of the species. Therefore, we must always be on our guard against this particular power. At least we weren't taught that sex is a tool of the devil!
I'm no expert, having very limited experience, but I think for those of us with trust issues, it is more about an ultimate connection. Then there are the "duty" parts, etc. etc.
Sorry, realize as I type how not helpful around this I am. I have the great speech I've given my boys about respecting women, being gentle, giving love with their minds as much and as often as with their bodies...and waiting until they are really ready (like when they are 35).
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