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Re: Me and my nurse

Posted by dragonfly25 on January 27, 2004, at 14:17:33

In reply to Me and my nurse, posted by YoungBoy84 on January 27, 2004, at 13:15:14

well, if i have followed this correctly...(i am tired so i apoligize if i read wrong)...you HAD a crush on your nurse, then you developed a strong feeling for her in a platonic way (sister), and now she has said that she was helping you to deal with your "relationship issues", and she said you are very sick? ok, if i have this correct...i have some advice, you will do fine without her. She helped you through a tough time and helped you realize that u are a special person (i can tell there is something special about you from reading your post:-)), i think that before that expereince you were feeling very isolated and down on your self, when you are feeling down you can really poison your self esteem and it is amazing what tricks your mind will play on you. But it is SO important that you prepare for the separation between the two of you. It is going to happen and you need to try to feel like you can stilll go in a store and still go to school. you don't need her, you are able to do it, you have proved that already. A nurse is not allowed to continue a relationship post hospital. but i have faith in you and i know you will be fine:) you have a month to prepare for this and when you do start school, you will meet someone. a little more advice, you may want to start school slowly after you are released from the hospital (are you starting soon after discharge) it could be a shock for you to go home after being in hospital for so long, make sure you are followed up with. i hope i understood properly, and gave you some advice that you were looking for...it sounds like you are doing well and that is great.
take care
dragonfly

ps- i don't think that she should have told you you are very sick and need lots of therapy, you may need lots of therapy (who doesn't) but that does not mean you are 'sick'

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