Posted by Karen_kay on January 24, 2004, at 12:16:02
In reply to Re: caught off guard!! » lilmsbubbles07, posted by Elle2021 on January 23, 2004, at 23:45:21
I think it's just odd that your new therapist would "out of the blue" say it is your fault that your old therapist terminated therapy. Were you talking about your old therapist in the conversation before she said that, or did she just say it? It seems rather harsh, IMO. But, I've been following your "story" and it kinda sucks. I'm sorry :( I'm kinda having the same fears right now actually. Well, not that my therapist will transfer me based onhis own feelings, but that I'll get booted for being "stupid" :)
But, maybe you should try to continue working on your feelings regardin your old therapist and the termination, if you feel you haven't completely resolved those hurt feelings yet, as I know I wouldn't have at this point. Do you feel you have a grasp on the situation at this point? Do you know the whole story? It sounds to me like she has a different opinion than you do, as to why therapy was terminated. But accusing doesn't help in the healing process, IMO. I'd let her know, but that's just me.
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