Posted by crushedout on January 13, 2004, at 16:53:01
In reply to Re: needing a hug being refused, wish it didn't hurt, posted by metalflipflop on January 13, 2004, at 15:58:24
Wow, Liz, that is really odd. Did you ask her how that was supposed to fix things? Maybe she thinks that her inconsistency is the only problem, when clearly that's not what's making you feel so bad.I don't know what to tell you. I truly feel for your heartbrokenness (I've been heartbroken over my T also, although her behavior has been more comprehensible to me than yours' seems to have been to you). I wouldn't blame you for dumping her, but don't do anything rash, or for the wrong reasons. I mean, try to talk it out calmly with her, get her to explain how she thinks she's helping you. Especially if you haven't been a client that pushes the bourndaries, I don't think being overly rigid with you at this point is the least bit helpful to your relationship with her. She seems very confused.
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