Posted by Joslynn on December 29, 2003, at 8:28:14
In reply to Re: LOL. The woman was just plain clueless. (nm) » jane d, posted by tabitha on December 27, 2003, at 23:41:28
I guess that pdocs, with their houses in suburbia and private driveways, do not understand the sacred nature of parking space etiquette, which people ignore at their own risk! I am usually a mild mannered person, but if someone lets their guests illegally park in our narrow little sliver of a lot, I will come banging on your door like the grim reaper!
On another note...my pdoc has said little things in the past that hurt or concerned me, but at that point in our "relationship," I was too afraid of abandonment to bring them up.
Then one time I did bring up some of my hurt/anger about a phone call mishap, and it actually had really good results, and he apologized and said it was his fault without even getting defensive.
So my question is, now that I am more brave with him based on that past incident, should I bring up the things in the past that hurt me, to practice being more assertive with men? Or should I just let that stay in the past and figure, new little annoying comments are sure to crop up that I can address in the present moment.
thanks.
poster:Joslynn
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