Posted by Speaker on December 10, 2003, at 10:34:26
In reply to I Asserted, posted by tabitha on December 10, 2003, at 2:38:01
Tabitha,
I have never done group...don't think it would be for me. However, I have learned for me it works well to pose a question when someone makes those bold statements to me. Something like...do you know how that came across to me,...or did I understand you right, are you saying. It is assertive in letting people know what your thinking but less threatning for them and they usually allow me the opportunity to tell them how what they said affected me. Don't know if it will work for you but has been helpful for me. Its still better to say what your thinking than leave and keep it inside!
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