Posted by Adia on November 5, 2003, at 9:46:20
In reply to Adia?, posted by Dinah on November 4, 2003, at 18:27:52
Dear Dinah,
Thank you so much for thinking of me...
I know I´ve been a bit quiet...
it´s just that things are a little rough..
It´s confusing and hard to explain but I had been starting to open my heart more to my T and something happened that is delaying that..because my mother playing the role of worried mom contacted my therapist behind my back..and my T had no choice but to see her because my mother kept insisting and calling. (my T talked to me first)..and well I just feel my safe place is being invaded..Things with my mother are really difficult, (she never admitted the truth of my father´s abuse to me), and now she goes saying she is worried because I lose control and show anger towards her...
I´m trying to feel I´m still in control and to feel that no matter what my mother says about me or what she does I am my therapist´s patient and not her, my T has been really supportive lately and has called me a lot to check on me..even on sunday.
but I don´t like that my mother can invade the safety of my place in therapy. Now she has also emailed my therapist. It´s a long story..but well, all this is making therapy right now really hard and all I want is to feel safe and to connect with my therapist and make progress with her. She´s been great and really supportive...so I trust it´ll be ok.Sorry I haven´t been posting..I´ve been reading and sending love from here..but not very strong to post...
I hope things with your therapist are going well.. :o)
Thank you for asking and thinking of me... :o)
Love and support,
Adia.
> Are you still around? I was wondering how therapy was going for you.
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