Posted by Adia on October 13, 2003, at 17:08:16
In reply to Re: Dangers in Transference..Jay, posted by stjames on October 13, 2003, at 16:44:23
I wanted to say I agree with you, I can't see what good it can do to keep feelings hidden and suffer by yourself...?
I can't imagine the pain of having to keep all those feelings to myself and see my therapist and be there knowing I am hiding from her or editing or censoring what I share with her.
It is hard but I feel it is sooooo relieving to be able to be totally honest and still find that it is okay to have expressed those feelings...
I feel it is very damaging to keep those feelings to yourself and try to get rid of them or find out what to do without your therapist's help..when he or she should be the one to help you process your feelings in the context of therapy...i understand the fear but it saddens me that people feel they don't have to tell their therapists and work through the feelings on their own..
wishing lots of healing to all,
Adia.> Why do you go to someone to help you and then lie ?
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