Posted by karen_kay on October 10, 2003, at 16:16:13
In reply to Re: How to overcome transference, posted by pinkeye on October 10, 2003, at 16:06:51
Did you have a good realtionship with your father? Maybe you really have a need to be protected? Other than the abuse, he protected me from my mother's abuse, and I hold him in high regard. Try starting there. Try to sit down without distrations and find out what it is you are looking for in these men. I wan tprotection, stability, comfort, those types of things. The types of things a father gives a child. Thry that ansd see what happens.
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