Posted by karen_kay on October 9, 2003, at 19:34:48
In reply to Miss my therapist a lot, posted by pinkeye on October 9, 2003, at 18:08:04
I'm sorry to hear that you miss your therapist so very much. I cannot imagine leaving my therapist, butI hope that when the time comes I am a better person and finally "fixed"! I am curious, are you continuing therapy in your new area? I believe starting the search for a new therapist may alleviate the feelings that you have for your previous therapist. I too have very strong erotic transference feelings towards my therapist, yet am too shy to express to him the degree to which I have them. Instead I crack jokes about my attraction. He never seems to laugh. Imagine that. Maybe you could try one final email to him to convey the feelings of abandonment that you are experiencing. He could possibly feel that it is for the best that he doesn't contact you any longer. Good luck in this difficult matter. I hope that I am able to help a bit. I have been reading posts here for quite some time but this is the first time I have actually posted. Congratulations to me. Good luck hun and believe that things will get better! Karen
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